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November 14, 2022

What are you saying “YES” to?

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My 2022 year in review (and what are you saying yes to?)

Summer and Fall really flew by. I feel like I blinked and it was over. The new year is right around the corner.

This year, some pretty big things happened. I challenged myself to slow down and say YES to rest, pleasure, joy, and things that light me up, with a group of friends.

Today, I’m sharing all the pretty and gritty details of my spring and summer of YES.

In the last six months, I said YES to:

  • Trips with Eric to New York, Alaska, and Georgia.
  • A week of rest and time off before we help my mom’s celebration of life.
  • Meeting my business mastermind friends in Evansville and Savannah
  • A Jura coffee machine (MAJOR upgrade and housewarming gift)
  • A move to Omaha (planned for another city and not until 2023)
  • A new offer in my business (Main Character Closet™)

It didn’t seem like a lot at the time, but when I write it down, I said YES to so many things.

But this is not a brag list. This is a “but if-I’m-being-honest” list.

Sometimes when I see people share stuff like this, I think “wow, what a great life they must have,” but the reality is that they’re probably sharing the highlights and  not the low. When you say YES to something, you are saying NO to something else. And sometimes that yes comes with work and a cost.

So, here is honestly what I thought and felt about saying YES to all the things:

The Omaha Move: It’s too much work and I’m too tired to move. I wasn’t prepared to make an offer on a house, have an offer on our house the next day and pack/move/close in 7 weeks. It was a lot. We also planned to move to the West Coast to be more in-between both families, but we decided being in driving distance of Eric’s mom would be a good idea. As I type this, there are still boxes to be unpacked, but at least my office is clean!

Finding a new doctor, a new dentist, getting utilities set up…I was not looking forward to this. I cried a handful of times from frustration (like when we couldn’t find any movers to come to North Platte, so we had to rent and load two U-Hauls ourselves and go back and forth to Omaha)…or when the U-Haul AC broke and I had three hot cats in carriers on my lap and about had a full crying meltdown. But we did it. We’re moved.

The Jura: Eric and I work from home. We have a regular boring coffee pot. We decided to price out a coffee/espresso machine since we don’t really go out for coffee. Eric found something that was amazing. We went to Williams Sonoma and tried it out. I was cheap and didn’t want to buy it. Seriously, I felt like it was too big a splurge. I am so glad Eric talked me into it. They last forever and I have suddenly turned into a coffee snob after years of drinking Folgers. Funny the things we have money hangups about…also don’t judge me about the Folgers.

My new program, Main Character Closet™: This was a big one for me, and something I’ve been sitting on (aka ignoring) for a while. I’ve been helping people with their clothes and personal style forever. For free. Most people don’t know that I went to school for fashion design and switched to graphic design because I hate sewing.

As a designer, I “dressed” brands for 20 years, helping them communicate what they wanted to say to their customers visually. I love color, patterns, texture, and how personal style can build confidence and allow for creative expression. LOVE IT!

So I said YES to creating a one-on-on, VIP day over Zoom. I’m so excited to help people find their style, audit their closets and learn how to turn their random items into finished outfits. I’m launching a beta (at a 50% off beta founders price) next week, but you can see a sneak peek of the program if you CLICK HERE.

Saying yes to all the things meant I had to say no to others.

Here’s what I said NO to:

Going back to school this semester: I went full-time for two and have a 4.0. It was too much. The point was joy and fun. But the first semester was a wreck. Eric broke his foot and had two surgeries. It was too much. The second semester, my mom passed away. I flew back and forth to Alaska and with the time difference, my sleep was a wreck. I gained weight and I’m still trying to get my insomnia back on track. My hair started falling out. School stopped being fun but I didn’t feel like I could back out once I started the semester in January. I should have said no then, but I said no now. Nobody is perfect, but we figure it out, right?

Planning my mom’s celebration of life: I couldn’t be in Alaska the month before the celebration, having been there already so much. Since my local AK family was there, I let them handle the details. I put together the arrangements when she passed in December, for our immediate family to celebrate her, but let my  other family members who had the time and were already in Alaska plan the summer celebration. This was hard because as the oldest daughter, I felt it was my responsibility. But there were people with more time who could fully arrange it, while I would have struggled and likely missed some things. So I (gratefully) let them.

A road trip to the Pacific Northwest: We planned a month-long road trip from Spokane to Medford to visit places we hoped to move. When we decided to move closer to Eric’s parents and picked Omaha, we cancelled the trip. I was disappointed because the last time we had this trip was with my mom, so I was looking forward to revisiting places we visited together in 2017. But we can go again in the future. And since it was all refundable, we decided to save that money for our trip to Ireland in May of 2023.

So this was my summer of both YES and NO. Sometimes restful, and sometimes stressful.

I share these truths because I’m nothing if not transparent.

We – women especially – need to support each other. There are women who will try to lift you up with them and there are women who will climb you like stairs to lift themselves up. If you’re living your truth, your life by example, there are women who will judge you and smile to your face while they talk behind your back and try to break you down. The sister wound is real.

Sharing the highlight reels without disclosing the low lights, to me, isn’t genuine. I find that it makes other women feel like their life is missing something, that a certain level of happiness isn’t for them, or that pleasure and joy are always easy to find and feel.

Sure, sometimes our lives ARE missing something and these highlight reels shine a light on our desire/envy/jealousy. But there are a lot of regular moments and days between the highlight reel “YES” moments.

While you might not be able to fill your days with these big YES moments, you can upgrade these regular moments to feel just as good.

As a coach, I have reconfigured my life to fill my regular, real-life days with main character moments.

I find them in using one of my favorite handmade coffee mugs, that I collect when I travel, and savoring my morning coffee. I’m not sitting in silence in for 30 minutes sipping my coffee, meditating. That’s not me. But I take 5 and just enjoy my coffee and take a minute before I’m scrolling my emails for the day.

Another main character moment for me is sitting on the couch in the evening reading a good book, even if it’s just 15-20 minutes, surrounded by cat babies. 

I sit at the table and enjoy eating my lunch and remember the years I sat at my desk at work just shoveling it into my mouth while I read emails. 

I use the good lotion. I take a bath with epsom salt. I put fun outfits together and wear clothes I love, even though they’re casual and functional since I work from home. I go for a walk. I meal prep and listen to my favorite podcasts or audiobooks. 

Main character moments are about adding more pleasure, fun and joy to your everyday, real life. It’s about upgrading your daily experiences, not just tapping into happiness a few times a year when you have a paid vacation…or on the weekend with a bottle of wine. And you don’t need a million dollars to do it.

Showing up like the main character in your life is not about being a selfish narcissist. If you’re still reading this, I can almost guarantee you’re quite the opposite. It’s about knowing that when your cup is full, you are your best self. 

When you’re your best self, that joy you feel overflows to your spouse, your kids, your friends, your family.

By saying YES you are an example to others that it is possible for them to say YES to themselves, too. And what it’s okay to say NO to.

Once you start saying yes to yourself in little ways every day, you’ll start training yourself to believe what I do: That joy is your birthright and anything is possible for you.

It’s from this place that we can make big moves because they don’t feel as big or impossible anymore.

What are you saying YES to?

What do you want to say YES to in the new year?

How can you add more main character moments to your day?

I’d love for you to reply in the comments and let me know.

If you read to the end, thanks for sticking around for this unusually long blog post.

Sending you high-fives, main character energy vibes, and permission to say YES to yourself because joy is your birthright,

Alexis

P.S. I help you say YES to yourself in the new year and create your main character life in my DIY vision and goal-setting online course, The 48-Hour Planning Retreat™.

In one weekend, it will change your damn life! And it’s only $497 (WHAT?!). To learn about it and enroll today, CLICK HERE.

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I have something to celebrate. Something that has taken what seems like forever. A sweet ending and a new beginning.
 
For the last 13-ish months, I've been waiting for my Trademark applications to be approved. If you're unfamiliar, applying for and registering a trademark is a long process.
 
I wanted ownership of the name of my style program, Main Character Closet™, and I also wanted ALL of my products and services to be renamed and branded under the "main character" umbrella.
 
Since 2019, The 48-Hour Planning Retreat™, my vision and goal-setting online course, has been my signature program. Many people have gone through the course and go back to it year after year to dream and plan for the life they always wanted, all in a weekend. 
 
I'm proud of this program. Writing, recording, designing, and publishing took a whole year! A freaking YEAR! 
 
And now I'm retiring the course. 😮

I'm creating a new program, adding new content, and rebranding/redesigning/renaming The 48-Hour Planning Retreat™ to Main Character Year™.
 
I'm officially in the final stages of trademark approval and want to celebrate with a special retirement discount of $200 off the original course.
 
I've never offered a discount on the program, and this is the lowest price it's ever been. If you use your discount code, here's what you'll pay:
 
⭐ Standard Course Price: $297 (was $497)
 
⭐ VIP Upgrade Course Price, which includes the course and 90-minute coaching session with me): $597 (was $797)
 
And to make the program even more accessible, I now offer payment plans through Affirm and AfterPay on ALL my programs, products, and services. They range from 0% interest for 4 payments, to extended plans.
 
What do you want more of in your life by the end of 2023? In 2024? This program can help you get clear on what you want and the feel-good steps to make it happen. Because I want you to create a life that makes you feel like the main character.
 
If you've been waiting to enroll in my program, this is the absolute best time at the lowest price.
 
Enroll now (link in bio) and use code 48HOUR200OFF at checkout: https://alexis-buhrman.mykajabi.com/48HRPR

Here's to new beginnings!
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I have something to celebrate. Something that has taken what seems like forever. A sweet ending and a new beginning. For the last 13-ish months, I've been waiting for my Trademark applications to be approved. If you're unfamiliar, applying for and registering a trademark is a long process. I wanted ownership of the name of my style program, Main Character Closet™, and I also wanted ALL of my products and services to be renamed and branded under the "main character" umbrella. Since 2019, The 48-Hour Planning Retreat™, my vision and goal-setting online course, has been my signature program. Many people have gone through the course and go back to it year after year to dream and plan for the life they always wanted, all in a weekend. I'm proud of this program. Writing, recording, designing, and publishing took a whole year! A freaking YEAR! And now I'm retiring the course. 😮 I'm creating a new program, adding new content, and rebranding/redesigning/renaming The 48-Hour Planning Retreat™ to Main Character Year™. I'm officially in the final stages of trademark approval and want to celebrate with a special retirement discount of $200 off the original course. I've never offered a discount on the program, and this is the lowest price it's ever been. If you use your discount code, here's what you'll pay: ⭐ Standard Course Price: $297 (was $497) ⭐ VIP Upgrade Course Price, which includes the course and 90-minute coaching session with me): $597 (was $797) And to make the program even more accessible, I now offer payment plans through Affirm and AfterPay on ALL my programs, products, and services. They range from 0% interest for 4 payments, to extended plans. What do you want more of in your life by the end of 2023? In 2024? This program can help you get clear on what you want and the feel-good steps to make it happen. Because I want you to create a life that makes you feel like the main character. If you've been waiting to enroll in my program, this is the absolute best time at the lowest price. Enroll now (link in bio) and use code 48HOUR200OFF at checkout: https://alexis-buhrman.mykajabi.com/48HRPR Here's to new beginnings!
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Should. It's a dirty, dirty word, isn't it?

People have asked me about upgrading their style game to attract more clients. I have thoughts.

Here's the thing. People judge. We're wired to do it, even if we don't realize it or have mean intentions. I do it. You do it. People are going to judge you no matter what you do.

Knowing that people judge, some people choose to upgrade their style and image to make a statement to potential clients. Some people are programmed from their former corporate roles to dress for the job you want, not the one you've got.

Some people feel pressured to dress a certain way and push back. It makes them angry. If you're good at what you do, who cares what you wear?!

Instead of asking, "Should I Dress Nicer in My Business to Attract More Clients?" here are two different questions:

What impression do you want to make?

How can your style reflect that in a way that feels good to you?

It can feel like a total slog if you're focused on dressing for others rather than yourself. You might feel resentful or angry.

When I work with clients, I want them to know that they can make a statement with their style without changing who they are to do it. It doesn't (and shouldn't) have to feel like a "should."

Here's what I want you to know:

You can have a great style that feels easy.

You can have a great style that fits your budget.

You can have great style in the body you have right now.

You can have great style for your own joy and pleasure and one that makes the impression YOU want it to.

You can have great style and be comfortable.

You can have great style that doesn't feel like a "should."

Personal style is PERSONAL, and I help my clients find one that checks all their preference boxes, doesn't feel like a "should," and makes them feel confident. So they can show up on camera, on stage, or at their next in-person event feeling like the main damn character in their clothes.

If you need help in this area, I want to work with you. Send me a message, and let's book a call.

If you want to learn more before we chat, visit www.maincharactercloset.com for all the program details and pricing/payment plan options. Link in bio.
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Should. It's a dirty, dirty word, isn't it? People have asked me about upgrading their style game to attract more clients. I have thoughts. Here's the thing. People judge. We're wired to do it, even if we don't realize it or have mean intentions. I do it. You do it. People are going to judge you no matter what you do. Knowing that people judge, some people choose to upgrade their style and image to make a statement to potential clients. Some people are programmed from their former corporate roles to dress for the job you want, not the one you've got. Some people feel pressured to dress a certain way and push back. It makes them angry. If you're good at what you do, who cares what you wear?! Instead of asking, "Should I Dress Nicer in My Business to Attract More Clients?" here are two different questions: What impression do you want to make? How can your style reflect that in a way that feels good to you? It can feel like a total slog if you're focused on dressing for others rather than yourself. You might feel resentful or angry. When I work with clients, I want them to know that they can make a statement with their style without changing who they are to do it. It doesn't (and shouldn't) have to feel like a "should." Here's what I want you to know: You can have a great style that feels easy. You can have a great style that fits your budget. You can have great style in the body you have right now. You can have great style for your own joy and pleasure and one that makes the impression YOU want it to. You can have great style and be comfortable. You can have great style that doesn't feel like a "should." Personal style is PERSONAL, and I help my clients find one that checks all their preference boxes, doesn't feel like a "should," and makes them feel confident. So they can show up on camera, on stage, or at their next in-person event feeling like the main damn character in their clothes. If you need help in this area, I want to work with you. Send me a message, and let's book a call. If you want to learn more before we chat, visit www.maincharactercloset.com for all the program details and pricing/payment plan options. Link in bio.
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Why are we still doing this?⁠
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I met someone on Zoom recently - a new connection in my network. I felt we didn’t really hit it off. No big deal, right?⁠
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On the call, we shared what we both do, and they told me they’re authentic because they don’t wear any makeup. They were the “real deal.” At the time, I clearly was wearing my signature liquid black eyeliner…because that's my thing and I will be buried in it. 🤣 Not really. I rarely wear makeup anymore, but if I do, it's black liquid eyeliner for the win.⁠
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The convo got me thinking, I’ve read a few comments online recently, shaming people and labeling them as "fake" for dying their hair, doing their nails, wearing certain styles of clothing, or getting hair extensions.⁠
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Just throwing this out there: if it's genuine to you, it's authentic. Personal style is personal. Just because I don’t do my nails, doesn’t mean I judge other people who do, or label them as less authentic. Other people's style choices are none of my business.⁠
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I touch up my roots not because I’m “inauthentic” but because I like the aesthetic of my dark hair. That’s a part of my personal style that I currently enjoy.⁠
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I understand how the patriarchy has impacted women and programmed them (us) with the message that we’re only as good as our appearance. We are judged by how we look. Women already have to deal with that judgment from culture at large, do we need it from other women, too?⁠
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I know that how we look can become an obsession for some. Even when I see that in others, they’re still people. Who am I to judge them?⁠
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I work with and style a lot of different people, and none of them deserved to be shamed or labeled as inauthentic, no matter their reasons for adornment. That's none of my business.⁠
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What is my business is how we work together.⁠
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My hope is that we can shift any focus on dressing/adorning for others to a focus on personal joy, comfort and pleasure. Letting personal enjoyment and how my clients want to feel be the guide and dropping things that don’t align with that goal and those feelings.⁠
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And just throwing this out there. You can still dye your hair. You are welcome here.⁠
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Thoughts?
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Why are we still doing this?⁠ ⁠ I met someone on Zoom recently - a new connection in my network. I felt we didn’t really hit it off. No big deal, right?⁠ ⁠ On the call, we shared what we both do, and they told me they’re authentic because they don’t wear any makeup. They were the “real deal.” At the time, I clearly was wearing my signature liquid black eyeliner…because that's my thing and I will be buried in it. 🤣 Not really. I rarely wear makeup anymore, but if I do, it's black liquid eyeliner for the win.⁠ ⁠ The convo got me thinking, I’ve read a few comments online recently, shaming people and labeling them as "fake" for dying their hair, doing their nails, wearing certain styles of clothing, or getting hair extensions.⁠ ⁠ Just throwing this out there: if it's genuine to you, it's authentic. Personal style is personal. Just because I don’t do my nails, doesn’t mean I judge other people who do, or label them as less authentic. Other people's style choices are none of my business.⁠ ⁠ I touch up my roots not because I’m “inauthentic” but because I like the aesthetic of my dark hair. That’s a part of my personal style that I currently enjoy.⁠ ⁠ I understand how the patriarchy has impacted women and programmed them (us) with the message that we’re only as good as our appearance. We are judged by how we look. Women already have to deal with that judgment from culture at large, do we need it from other women, too?⁠ ⁠ I know that how we look can become an obsession for some. Even when I see that in others, they’re still people. Who am I to judge them?⁠ ⁠ I work with and style a lot of different people, and none of them deserved to be shamed or labeled as inauthentic, no matter their reasons for adornment. That's none of my business.⁠ ⁠ What is my business is how we work together.⁠ ⁠ My hope is that we can shift any focus on dressing/adorning for others to a focus on personal joy, comfort and pleasure. Letting personal enjoyment and how my clients want to feel be the guide and dropping things that don’t align with that goal and those feelings.⁠ ⁠ And just throwing this out there. You can still dye your hair. You are welcome here.⁠ ⁠ Thoughts?
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What ERA are you in?

I'm in a group coaching program, and the coach asked us this question. She wanted us to chose the ERA we want to be in at this moment in our lives.

I decided that this is my VIP ERA. Not VIP in terms of money, but in how I show up for myself and treat myself like a VIP.

This looks like asking myself:

Is what I’m doing or thinking treating myself like a VIP? Do my thoughts and actions feel like business class? Economy class? Or worse, not even on the plane because I don’t have a ticket?!

This week, that looked like asking myself:

Is drinking another cup of coffee how I’d treat myself as a VIP or does my body really need water?

Is sitting at the desk all day (because I can) treating myself like a VIP or do I need to take more breaks?

Is working late (because I love this project) really good for me, or do I need to log off and get a good night's sleep?

I like asking these questions because they don’t feel like an attack or criticism. They feel in alignment with my ERA. It’s looking at different areas of my life and identifying which ones I want to improve.

I shared this exercise with another group of friends, and several identified that their clothes did not make them feel like VIPs. That was the area that needed improvement.

There's research that shows that what we wear can influence our mood. No shocker there. You just feel good when you're wearing something you love - even jeans and a t-shirt.

A lot of my clients have been waiting to lose weight before they buy clothes, because they think losing weight will make them feel better.

But I argue that when you start treating yourself like a VIP and dressing the body you have now, THAT will make you feel better. That will increase your confidence and joy.

And when you feel even a little bit better about yourself, and treat yourself like a VIP, it will give you that boost of motivation to look at all the ways you can treat yourself like a VIP.

If you’re ready to find a style you love and upgrade your closet, I would love to spend 30 days with you, helping you achieve your goals.

You can find all the details at www.maincharactercloset.com - link in bio. Or send me a DM!
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What ERA are you in? I'm in a group coaching program, and the coach asked us this question. She wanted us to chose the ERA we want to be in at this moment in our lives. I decided that this is my VIP ERA. Not VIP in terms of money, but in how I show up for myself and treat myself like a VIP. This looks like asking myself: Is what I’m doing or thinking treating myself like a VIP? Do my thoughts and actions feel like business class? Economy class? Or worse, not even on the plane because I don’t have a ticket?! This week, that looked like asking myself: Is drinking another cup of coffee how I’d treat myself as a VIP or does my body really need water? Is sitting at the desk all day (because I can) treating myself like a VIP or do I need to take more breaks? Is working late (because I love this project) really good for me, or do I need to log off and get a good night's sleep? I like asking these questions because they don’t feel like an attack or criticism. They feel in alignment with my ERA. It’s looking at different areas of my life and identifying which ones I want to improve. I shared this exercise with another group of friends, and several identified that their clothes did not make them feel like VIPs. That was the area that needed improvement. There's research that shows that what we wear can influence our mood. No shocker there. You just feel good when you're wearing something you love - even jeans and a t-shirt. A lot of my clients have been waiting to lose weight before they buy clothes, because they think losing weight will make them feel better. But I argue that when you start treating yourself like a VIP and dressing the body you have now, THAT will make you feel better. That will increase your confidence and joy. And when you feel even a little bit better about yourself, and treat yourself like a VIP, it will give you that boost of motivation to look at all the ways you can treat yourself like a VIP. If you’re ready to find a style you love and upgrade your closet, I would love to spend 30 days with you, helping you achieve your goals. You can find all the details at www.maincharactercloset.com - link in bio. Or send me a DM!
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Hi. I'm Alexis. If you're new here, welcome to the lazy style party!⁠
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I'm a size-inclusive style coach. I teach women of all shapes and sizes how to find and shop for their style and turn random items into beautiful outfits with ease - so they can save time and money and feel confident in their clothes.⁠
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My clients come to me when they are long overdue for a closet upgrade.⁠
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They WANT to be comfortable, NEED to get dressed quickly and LONG to look put together and cute – whether it’s on Zoom, on stage, or picking up kids from school.⁠
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I created Main Character Closet™ FOR YOU! Here's how it works:⁠
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We meet over Zoom and spend half a day together finding your style - one that reflects who you are and the story you want to tell through your clothes: professional, put-together, confident, qualified, creative, or just damn keeewwwwwtttt!⁠
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I handpick 15-20 PAGES of items and brands based on your style goals, body and budget, and we'll spend 30 days together trying things on and shopping the winners. You can email and text me photos of your shopping cart before you buy, or take me with you while you shop!⁠
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I'll teach you how to put items you already have, and new ones you purchase together, so you have a closet full of grab-and-go outfits to wear.⁠
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You'll walk away feeling confident that you can shop for yourself, but if you ever feel stuck, your VIP Day includes a follow-up Zoom call, so you can really put what you learn into practice with my support.⁠
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Imagine how good it will feel to finally have a closet full of clothes that make you feel like the main damn character!⁠
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If your closet needs a little love or a full-on exorcism, I’ve got you. And this is going to be fun!⁠
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I'm filling up for 2023 because the holidays are around the corner. I know, it's only August, but I recommend clients give themselves plenty of time to shop and get things altered if needed, so this is an enjoyable, stress-free process.⁠
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If you're interested, send me a message and let's chat. You can also get all the details and transparent pricing on my website at www.maincharactercloset.com⁠
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Cheers and glad to have you here!
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Hi. I'm Alexis. If you're new here, welcome to the lazy style party!⁠ ⁠ I'm a size-inclusive style coach. I teach women of all shapes and sizes how to find and shop for their style and turn random items into beautiful outfits with ease - so they can save time and money and feel confident in their clothes.⁠ ⁠ My clients come to me when they are long overdue for a closet upgrade.⁠ ⁠ They WANT to be comfortable, NEED to get dressed quickly and LONG to look put together and cute – whether it’s on Zoom, on stage, or picking up kids from school.⁠ ⁠ I created Main Character Closet™ FOR YOU! Here's how it works:⁠ ⁠ We meet over Zoom and spend half a day together finding your style - one that reflects who you are and the story you want to tell through your clothes: professional, put-together, confident, qualified, creative, or just damn keeewwwwwtttt!⁠ ⁠ I handpick 15-20 PAGES of items and brands based on your style goals, body and budget, and we'll spend 30 days together trying things on and shopping the winners. You can email and text me photos of your shopping cart before you buy, or take me with you while you shop!⁠ ⁠ I'll teach you how to put items you already have, and new ones you purchase together, so you have a closet full of grab-and-go outfits to wear.⁠ ⁠ You'll walk away feeling confident that you can shop for yourself, but if you ever feel stuck, your VIP Day includes a follow-up Zoom call, so you can really put what you learn into practice with my support.⁠ ⁠ Imagine how good it will feel to finally have a closet full of clothes that make you feel like the main damn character!⁠ ⁠ If your closet needs a little love or a full-on exorcism, I’ve got you. And this is going to be fun!⁠ ⁠ I'm filling up for 2023 because the holidays are around the corner. I know, it's only August, but I recommend clients give themselves plenty of time to shop and get things altered if needed, so this is an enjoyable, stress-free process.⁠ ⁠ If you're interested, send me a message and let's chat. You can also get all the details and transparent pricing on my website at www.maincharactercloset.com⁠ ⁠ Cheers and glad to have you here!
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Feeling Frumpy...⁠
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When I work with clients in my Personal Style program, Main Character Closet™, the first step in the process is the prework. ⁠
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One of the questionnaires asks them to describe how they currently feel about their style.⁠
⁠
And guess what word I see, time and again?⁠
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FRUMPY.⁠
⁠
Hey, I get it! Lots of my clients were working from home during the pandemic. Some people I’ve worked with put on some weight and have resisted buying new clothes.

Some haven’t bought new clothes in years and everything needs an upgrade. The one word they use to describe how they feel that they all have in common is “frumpy.⁠”
⁠
If you can relate, I want to work with you and help you find a style and clothes you love, in the body you have now. ❤️
⁠
How would it FEEL to:⁠
⁠
✅ Have a complete, head-to-toe closet overhaul in the next month?⁠

✅ Spend 4 hours with me finally finding a style you absolutely love, however you define it?⁠
⁠
✅ Have me pick you curated clothing and brands that fit your body, budget and style goals?⁠
⁠
✅ Get 30 days of email and text support as you shop and try things on and a 60-minute Zoom follow-up call to turn all those purchases into grab-and-go outfits?
⁠
I have a handful of VIP day spots available in the next few months and if you think you’d like to snag one, send me a DM and let’s talk.⁠

Or visit www.maincharactercloset.com - all the program details and pricing are outlined there. Link in bio.
⁠
I would love to help you find a style that makes you feel like the main damn character!
Feeling Frumpy...⁠
⁠
When I work with clients in my Personal Style program, Main Character Closet™, the first step in the process is the prework. ⁠
⁠
One of the questionnaires asks them to describe how they currently feel about their style.⁠
⁠
And guess what word I see, time and again?⁠
⁠
FRUMPY.⁠
⁠
Hey, I get it! Lots of my clients were working from home during the pandemic. Some people I’ve worked with put on some weight and have resisted buying new clothes.

Some haven’t bought new clothes in years and everything needs an upgrade. The one word they use to describe how they feel that they all have in common is “frumpy.⁠”
⁠
If you can relate, I want to work with you and help you find a style and clothes you love, in the body you have now. ❤️
⁠
How would it FEEL to:⁠
⁠
✅ Have a complete, head-to-toe closet overhaul in the next month?⁠

✅ Spend 4 hours with me finally finding a style you absolutely love, however you define it?⁠
⁠
✅ Have me pick you curated clothing and brands that fit your body, budget and style goals?⁠
⁠
✅ Get 30 days of email and text support as you shop and try things on and a 60-minute Zoom follow-up call to turn all those purchases into grab-and-go outfits?
⁠
I have a handful of VIP day spots available in the next few months and if you think you’d like to snag one, send me a DM and let’s talk.⁠

Or visit www.maincharactercloset.com - all the program details and pricing are outlined there. Link in bio.
⁠
I would love to help you find a style that makes you feel like the main damn character!
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Feeling Frumpy...⁠ ⁠ When I work with clients in my Personal Style program, Main Character Closet™, the first step in the process is the prework. ⁠ ⁠ One of the questionnaires asks them to describe how they currently feel about their style.⁠ ⁠ And guess what word I see, time and again?⁠ ⁠ FRUMPY.⁠ ⁠ Hey, I get it! Lots of my clients were working from home during the pandemic. Some people I’ve worked with put on some weight and have resisted buying new clothes. Some haven’t bought new clothes in years and everything needs an upgrade. The one word they use to describe how they feel that they all have in common is “frumpy.⁠” ⁠ If you can relate, I want to work with you and help you find a style and clothes you love, in the body you have now. ❤️ ⁠ How would it FEEL to:⁠ ⁠ ✅ Have a complete, head-to-toe closet overhaul in the next month?⁠ ✅ Spend 4 hours with me finally finding a style you absolutely love, however you define it?⁠ ⁠ ✅ Have me pick you curated clothing and brands that fit your body, budget and style goals?⁠ ⁠ ✅ Get 30 days of email and text support as you shop and try things on and a 60-minute Zoom follow-up call to turn all those purchases into grab-and-go outfits? ⁠ I have a handful of VIP day spots available in the next few months and if you think you’d like to snag one, send me a DM and let’s talk.⁠ Or visit www.maincharactercloset.com - all the program details and pricing are outlined there. Link in bio. ⁠ I would love to help you find a style that makes you feel like the main damn character!
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